About Kema Grace

My Mission

I help Mold-Breakers heal their Outcast Wound and cultivate self-love, turning their Pain into their Power through Spiritual Life Coaching with Integrated Energy Healing.

  • Mold-Breakers are people who don’t quite “fit in” to their communities or society in its current form. Other terms may sound familiar like “misfit”, “outsider”, “weirdo”, “nonconformist” etc.

    The reason I choose the term “mold-breaker” is because your unique vibe and perspective is a super power and I want to use empowering words to emphasize this fact.

    A Mold-Breaker is anyone who questions and defies the automatic labels that would be forced upon them by being who they truly are at heart in the face of expected conformity. Maybe they’ve tried to “fit in” to survive in their families and communities but the discomfort of betraying their authentic selves was too difficult to bear. Or perhaps they are like me and had no chance of even trying to fit in at all.

    They carry the Outcast Wound because of the response they evoke from society. It is up to each one to heal this wound and to transmute their Pain into their greatest Power.

  • The Outcast Wound is any unaddressed trauma from being outcast, attacked, or ostracized by your community or society at large because you don’t “fit the mold”.

    Some examples are: Being attacked by your religious community for being queer. Being bullied in school for being creative or an introvert. Being punished because you are a sensitive male. Being made to feel like you don’t belong because you are a “tomboy”.

    These wounds shape your perceptions of yourself and the world throughout your whole life, putting you in a constant state of defensiveness and self-deprecation which affects your work, your personal relationships, and your reality.

  • I know the Outcast Wound well. I never had a chance of fitting in with the community where I lived in my formative years.

    I also know healing and coaching well. I have had a deep perfectionist/inadequacy mindset for a long time which, though it has caused me suffering, always caused me to go incredibly deep in my studies and practices. I used to be debilitated with self-hate, depression, anxiety, and a nasty inner saboteur (negative self-talk). I have invested the time, energy, and Faith in my healing journey and can now say I am liberated from the pain and darkness of my past.

    I know that healing and empowerment is possible. I know how our perceptions create our reality. I know that if we want to change anything in the world, we must change it within ourselves.

    I can’t offer you a practice I’ve never experienced. I can’t prescribe a tool I have not utilized for my own healing. I am not here to sell you gold only for you to find out it is nothing but lead.

    What I do offer you is real world, tangible, life-changing results. I offer you a container in which to reflect your deepest pains to yourself and coaching to transmute that Pain and Darkness into your Power and your Light. I offer you the chance to be seen and accepted as you are and to walk the path to realizing that the things that caused people to cast you out in your life are the very things that are going to save your world. I offer you a chance to claim your own freedom from suffering. I offer you the chance to empower yourself to be your own savior. As long as you’re ready to trust yourself and do the Work.

    What can I do for you? I can show you a way Home.

Kema Narasimha Grace

Kema Grace grew up with a well nurtured imagination. Having been homeschooled at a young age in New Mexico, they were encouraged to keep their daydreaming alive. However, once they moved to Wisconsin during their formative years, they ended up deciding to enter into public school. This was the beginning of an initiation into life as a healer and coach, though it would take them years to understand the significance. Faced with the challenges of being different in a new cultural experience, they went though an indescribable darkness. Tortured by themselves and those around them, they were eventually faced with a choice to continue living or self-deliver. Though they had taken steps to end their own life, ultimately they understood that they were meant to live and made the choice to do so. This was a turning point in their life and the beginning of their awakening and exploration of consciousness. 

Kema underwent many more years of feeling misunderstood and a deep self-hatred which was conditioned upon them from their earlier experiences. After spending a good amount of time numbing their pain with drugs and alcohol through music college in St. Paul, MN and art college in Santa Fe, NM, they eventually moved to Los Angeles, CA through intense feelings of needing to escape. In Los Angeles, they got to such a place of desperation that they would do whatever it takes to release the pain and the darkness from their lives. It was this moment when they finally surrendered to intentionally embark upon their healing journey. Through exploring yoga, they discovered Sound Healing, which was an ‘aha’ moment for them as a musician from early childhood. After becoming certified as a sound healer, they got certified as a Reiki practitioner and ended up finally leaving their service industry job to work at a sound healing center in Santa Monica, CA. During this time, they began teaching and certifying other sound healers. They also became trained and certified as a Breathwork coach, which they consider to be one of the most important and powerful healing tools they’ve used in their life. In spring of 2020 they also became certified as a Death Doula and in January of 2024 they were trained and certified as an Animal Reiki Practitioner.

Now, years after embarking upon their healing journey, Kema enjoys life, fully embodying self-love and empowerment. Having brought forth their inner light to dissolve the entire darkness of their earlier experiences, they feel a deep sense of completion with the early experiences on their own personal path of healing. From this place of completion, they are now called to offer coaching, healing, guidance, and support for others with their own individual healing. Kema guides their clients and students to use the practices and tools that they have fully utilized in their own healing, liberation, and empowerment, knowing that the powerful life change and improvement they have created for themselves is entirely possible and available for every person.